After the tears and squeals there’s a certain joyful wonder
that comes the moment you become engaged.
You get to become a family with this amazing person that you admire,
respect and love. The rush of happiness
leaves you so elated that you feel amazing.
Until you start planning your wedding. And your mother-in-law wants to invite her bridge
club and knitting circle friends. And
your dad says it’s insane to spend $2,500 on a dress you wear once. And your mom neatly resolves it by insisting
that you wear her ruffled lace concoction that she wore when she married your
father and they've been married for 25
years so it should be good luck.
The expense and stress of planning such a large scale event while trying to keep your family happy is
enough to make any sane bride and groom elope.
I had a bride recently tell me that her cake cost $800. Eight. Hundred. Dollars. My head nearly exploded. Granted, my most elaborate birthday party as
a child involved Betty Crocker cupcakes with rainbow sprinkles and five cousins
at the McDonald’s Play Land so my perspective on cake and fancy parties is a
little un-fancy. I wondered, “will doves fly out of that cake?... is it decorated with Swarovski
crystals?” But then I thought, well
how much would I pay for cake at a restaurant?
And suddenly $2.67 per slice to serve 300 guests a decorated and
delivered cake didn’t seem so unreasonable.
Which brings me to wedding photography.
I routinely hear from people who are dismayed by the cost of
professional photography. Why? Because they have no concept of what
professional custom photography costs.
If they are like me, they grew up thinking good photos were taken by the school photographer (I will never
forgive my mother for making me wear that awful hunter green/maroon/navy blue
plaid, Victorian style blouse in the 5th grade and still displaying that photo in the foyer to this day!) Maybe they were fortunate enough to have
custom senior photos. Me: I went to… wait for it… Olan Mills and spent about
$60 (This was in the days of 99 cent gas. Does that admission make me seem
old?) Until there’s a Say Yes To The
Photographer show, the average consumer will be blindsided by the cost of professional
photography.
Get to the point, Val,
why is it so darn expensive?
First, I invest 15 hours of labor before I even take a photo
or edit. I may only be covering 8 hours
of your wedding day, but it takes a whopping 45-65 hours of work for every
wedding depending on the length of your wedding and the items included in your
package. Let’s assume for arguments sake
that the photographer makes $15 per hour (you wouldn’t want the minimum wage
photographer covering a once in a lifetime event, would you?) An average wedding is 55 hours of work so their
paycheck is $825. But don’t forget that
the business has to also be paid for expenses. Travel
expenses, batteries, rented equipment and the cost of delivered products are
easy to calculate, but the Business also has to set aside money to cover
operating expenses. Insurance, camera
and computer gear, editing software, internet, phone, website, office supplies,
advertising, accounting, lawyers for contract preparation… it’s expensive to
operate a photography business. A professional
camera body alone can cost $4,000-6,000.
What’s that? You found someone to cover 8 hours of your
wedding, provide a disc of images for printing and they’ll charge you less than $1,000?
Danger! Buyer Beware!
I hear the “AhOOOOHHH-Gah” of a submarine dive alarm when people say
that. Folks, you better vet them like a
political party nominee. Are they
insured and licensed? Do they use
professional camera equipment? Do they
bring back up gear? Can they show you
three complete wedding galleries of their work?
Can they show you numerous examples of their indoor, no flash and flash
photography? Do they have a professional
website? Do they collect sales tax? How many weddings have they photographed? Do they use a contract? If the answers are NO, then it’s kinda like
buying meat off a guy selling steaks from his van. Could be one damn fine filet mignon or you
could get salmonella poisoning. Either
way, it’s probably not a legitimately operating business. Hire someone who isn’t insured, and you’re on
the hook if they cause damage to the limo or hotel. In fact, most venues require that your
vendors carry insurance. Now you may get
lucky and score a professional portrait photographer who is trying to branch
out into wedding work. Still, do your
homework because portrait skills are very different from the skills and
equipment needed for indoor ceremonies and receptions. If they check out, lock them into a contract immediately. Because once a good photographer gets a few
solo weddings under their belt, they will raise their prices.
And if you hire the family member or friend who likes to take pictures and has a nice
camera, then hold your tongue and don’t you dare complain if the photos
suck. They probably tried their best and
the $300 you gave them to shoot your wedding wouldn’t even cover the business
expenses of most professional photographers.
But, Val, I really
cherish photography. It’s the only
possession I want to save if my house burns.
What’s a bride on a budget to do?
The first thing to do is critically analyze where you spend
your wedding budget. Wedding favors… who
needs them? Save-the-date cards… who
saves them? Embossed invitations on
luxurious linen papers… who remembers them?
Maybe there’s a smarter way to spend your money. Consider hiring a professional photographer
for a few hours only and skipping the digital image cd. Register for gift cards instead of toasters. Cut down your guest list. Eliminating just one 10 person table can save
you $650-1,500 in food, alcohol, cake, linens and centerpieces, invitations and
programs. And it’s a reasonable excuse
for not inviting your mother-in-law’s knitting circle if I ever heard one.
If you’re still reading this article, this would be the
appropriate time for a shameless plug for my photography services ( www.valeriehawkinsphotography.com
) . I’ll just let my portfolio speak for
itself. If you sell meat from your van,
belong to a knitting circle or sell luxury stationary/invitations for a living,
you probably hate me and self-serving endorsements won’t endear me to you. But even if my artistic style isn’t your cup
of tea, please don’t undervalue your
wedding photography. Go find someone whose
artistic style and photography speaks to you.
Make the investment. You are
worth it.
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